Just because I have long hair and wear make up, doesn’t mean I should be instantly boxed into the “femme” category. We’re both figuring out how to work in a relationship, so we don’t need external sexism putting extra pressure on us. Firstly, you have no idea what our sexual orientation is.We could’ve dated guys or we could be currently dating a guy for all you know. Secondly, I’m afraid even the most beautiful penis in the world (pretty sure that’s an oxymoron right there) could not ‘change’ the sexual orientation of somebody. People say this as if it’s a huge compliment, but what they are actually saying is “You don’t fit the extremely old fashioned, stereotypical image I have of girls who like girls. I would say that you look very single, but it would be very rude of me to make assumptions about you and your personal life based on how you present yourself. What people are actually saying is “we live in a patriarchal society which idolises men as the dominant figures in romantic relationships, but you’re two girls, so where are the men? One of you must have to pretend to be a man for any kind of functional relationship to work”. And, FYI, if you wear double denim and have a mullet, that’s wonderful. It’s just that not all ladies who like ladies, present themselves in the same way. So, on behalf of nearly all queer gals out there, I’d like to say thank you to all of the sweet people who have taken the time to tell us we don’t look gay. I don’t want to alarm anybody, but that’s kind of the point. Let me break it down a little bit: when you’re a girl, in a relationship with another girl, they’re usually no men involved.There was no Vin Diesel, but tonight's installment was too fast and too furious a plot. Having gotten so thrashed for liking last week's "filler" episode, if I am completely off base in your opinions once again this week, I am going to have to seriously reevaluate my take on the show or my faith in humanity.Perhaps I am sadly devoted to an ancient way of judging television. Oppose and contradict my opinions if you must, or concur with my feelings and join me.Thirdly, and very hypothetically, if there was such thing as ‘the right man’, I’m pretty sure you’d be as far away from it as humanly possible.
God's talking about us doing spiritual work in the vineyards, reaping a spiritual harvest for God.As an American woman of Southeast Asian and white heritage, these standards have long been on my periphery, but…by Caroline Phinney We can always count on Rihanna to bring the holidays early, and today she did just that.as were the top 10 things Marshall and Lily said on their wedding night, I felt like the episode tried to cram way too much into one half hour block and came off as a poor attempt to hot-wire the Mother storyline.Barney messing up his trademark catchphrase was amusing, but I honestly could not believe any woman - let alone someone he met a day ago - could unnerve him like that.