So please don’t think that when you go out looking for a spanking partner your chances will be very low in finding one, because they are not.
Do you sit and wait for the next party the following year? So how does a single guy (or girl) find a partner for a long term relationship that includes spanking? Long before puberty and long before I would have ever considered it something even remotely sexual.
I never knew why I had these feelings and desires, and I grew up like many of you did, feeling there was something wrong with me or worse, feeling I was alone and possibly the only person on this planet that had this fetish..
although back then I had no idea what a fetish was.
Out of the ten serious relationships I have had (lasting over a year), every single one of them were cool with spanking.
Sure it could be a coincidence, but I think choosing the right personality plays a huge role.